The Holidays are right around the corner. Holidays that bring both the possibility of joy and tumult. The more people in a room the greater the web of interactions and the more likelihood of misunderstanding and hurt feelings. We live in a culture of polarization. If someone does not agree with you on every point, that person is considered the enemy. Thoughtful debate is unheard of. Sadly, what is happening in the town square has become acceptable at the dinner table.